Rapture

What creating rapport basically means; it is the art of talking to a girl like she is a long lost friend you are seeing after 5 years, even though you two have just met

How do you do this?

Simple - by making her laugh.

Let me tell you one very important thing; the moment you walk up to a girl and make her laugh - just one laugh from her, it releases a chemical in her brain that automatically takes down her defense and make her see you as a friend - that is the simple way to create rapport.

And guess what; it is super easy to make a girl laugh.

When that very pretty girl was pointing out what to buy and what not to buy all i did to make her laugh was to smile and say: "jeez, i think i will make you my special adviser on pastries, you know this things inside out"

She laughed and then said: "

No na, is just that i come here regularly.

I know their stuff"

Was what i said that funny?

No, it wasn′t.

As a matter of fact it isn't.

Once i said that, we immediately started flowing like friends.

So why then did she laugh.

It is just simple year one psychology - when someone is helping you out with something and you tease them on how well they helped you with that thing, they would automatically laugh - not because what you said was funny but because it is plain psychology to laugh over things like that.

Take for instance; if someone asks you to help him with your pen and after giving him your pen he says: "guy, this your pen make sense o.

Like say you import am sef".

What would be your reaction?

To frown?

Of course not, you will laugh and say something modest.

Was it funny to say your pen looks imported?

NO.

But you still laughed.

Hope you get it now.

Once you make a girl laugh; the chemical is released in her brain that basically tells her: "alright, i am comfortable with this guy".

When her brain begins to respond this way and you use the style of number collection i explained inititally in this thread, there is no way she is turning you down.